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Onze verontschuldigingen, dit bericht is alleen beschikbaar in het Fr<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>

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Je m\u2019appelle \u00c9lise, j\u2019ai 44\u00a0ans et je suis maman solo depuis 14\u00a0ans. Je suis dipl\u00f4m\u00e9e bac +3\u00a0\u00c9ducatrice sp\u00e9cialis\u00e9e. Depuis l\u2019\u00e2ge de 16\u00a0ans, je travaille comme \u00e9tudiante. Ensuite, j\u2019ai cumul\u00e9 diff\u00e9rents jobs de saisonni\u00e8re avant d\u2019entamer une carri\u00e8re de pr\u00e8s de 20\u00a0ans en tant qu\u2019\u00e9ducatrice avec des horaires d\u00e9cal\u00e9s, des contraintes d\u2019horaires souvent incompatibles avec un enfant\u2026 mais j\u2019ai boss\u00e9 et j\u2019ai trouv\u00e9 des solutions de garde au sein de la famille, amis\u2026 J\u2019ai donc toujours \u00e9t\u00e9 ind\u00e9pendante financi\u00e8rement et souhaite le rester vraiment.\u00a0<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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Il y a 5\u00a0ans, je rencontre un homme ouvert d\u2019esprit qui accepte et souhaite aussi mon ind\u00e9pendance. Nous construisons un futur commun jusqu\u2019au jour o\u00f9.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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Il y a\u00a0 environ 4\u00a0ans, la charge mentale et la surcharge de travail depuis tant d\u2019ann\u00e9es donnent raison \u00e0 un craquage\u2026 un burn-out familial et une d\u00e9pression qui me mettent \u00e0 l\u2019arr\u00eat.\u00a0<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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Je suis par cons\u00e9quent sous un statut d\u2019invalidit\u00e9 et re\u00e7ois une indemnit\u00e9 mutuelle cons\u00e9quente \u00e0 mon statut de parent isol\u00e9.\u00a0<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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Je vis seule avec ma fille depuis sa naissance et je vois na\u00eetre une envie de partager mon quotidien avec l\u2019homme que j\u2019aime\u2026 et bien non\u2026 la r\u00e9alit\u00e9 je la prends en pleine face, si je m\u2019installe avec lui, je perds une partie de mes indemnit\u00e9s et mes allocations familiales ne seront plus major\u00e9es\u2026 Il n\u2019est pourtant pas le p\u00e8re de ma fille. Entre parenth\u00e8ses celui-ci n\u2019intervient en rien dans son \u00e9ducation et je ne per\u00e7ois aucune pension alimentaire vu la non-reconnaissance paternelle. Bref\u2026<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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Je ne sais pas quand je pourrai retravailler, car les s\u00e9quelles d\u2019un long arr\u00eat sont telles qu\u2019il faut du temps, beaucoup de temps pour se reconstruire.<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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Je ne souhaite pas \u00eatre en couple pour que mon compagnon prenne soin de moi, on ne vit plus dans les ann\u00e9es\u00a050. Je souhaite, nous souhaitons vivre ensemble parce que nous nous aimons et pas pour telle ou telle raison financi\u00e8re, et encore moins pour \u00eatre \u00ab\u2009d\u00e9pendante\u2009\u00bb. Lui aussi a ses charges, son salaire, ses enfants une semaine sur deux, son quotidien \u00e0 g\u00e9rer. Je ne suis pas et ne voudrais jamais \u00eatre un poids financier dans un amour si limpide et respectueux de chacun. Ce serait une des causes de conflits et de s\u00e9paration et donc un retour \u00e0 la case d\u00e9part du \u00ab\u202fvivre seule\u202f\u00bb.\u00a0<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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Paradoxalement, le syst\u00e8me est fait pour les couples, le pr\u00eat immobilier, les vacances, etc. Pour moi, tout est con\u00e7u pour la vie \u00e0 deux, alors que moi cette vie \u00e0 deux, on me la refuse.\u00a0<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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